Like many other travelers to downtown LA, she probably picked the place from its innocuous online photos: I remember being hugged by a woman who was round and voluptuous, and in that moment, it was the most comforting experience. I do however, have misgivings I would like to discuss. I may not always like how my body looks in the mirror or how my clothes fit, but I do love what it can do when I belly dance. I guess my point here is it doesn't matter what size you are because someone is always going to want to be shaped like you and until you master it you will always want to be shaped like someone else. Bonnie May 1, at 1: With respect, I was with you up until this point too.