I equate it to being stuck with the check at the end of the night when everyone else has left the table. My wife started at a beautiful pounds after 3 kids, and a decade of mild depression she was Get your own weak and flabby ass to the gym and shape up, then keep it that way. Talk about objectifying women. I would blow my husband every night. She was and tall. So honestly, me being in shape or not is not relevant.